We’ve Been Doing Break-Ups Wrong

How does it usually go when two people break up?

Tears, insults, blaming, yelling… Or maybe not much communication at all. Maybe avoidance of the cause altogether, stepping over it, or lying about it. Secret, unspoken resentment. Maybe it takes months or years of conflict, or happens suddenly as though the rug has been pulled out from under you.

The other breakthrough was in answering a series of questions I asked myself that I’ve broken down into 10 steps:

1. Allow yourself to picture exactly what you want. Give your mind and heart the freedom to voice what it actually desires in a partner, and in relationship. What does it look like? Paint the picture.

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